Don't beat your head that way, you'll give yourself a headache! I still think she'll like it. I understand what you're going through because I'm dealing with an almost 12 yr old boy who acts like he 8 some days (but because of his disorder it's understandable). He'll be happy (and warm) when I finish his blanket though. It's just those colors...LOL...some days they are just too much on the eyes.